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Saturday, May 25, 2013

谎言 vs. 现实

谎言世界美好却不真实,现实世界真实却不美好。你,会选择哪一个?

我听过一个故事:
有个男生很爱一个女生。那女生是个哑巴,所以觉得自己配不上这个男生,因此不停地拒他与千里之外。有一天,男生出外工干了。那段期间,他给女孩写了一封信。信上说:他公干时,发生意外,失去了说话能力,他已学会了手语。现在就不再有谁配不上谁的问题存在了。他问她,肯不肯嫁给他。她答应了。就这样,他们结婚,生子,一直到老。她比他先走一步。他在她的坟前喃喃道:“这个谎,骗了你那么多年,你会怪我吗?”

他,为了和她在一起,扮了几十年的哑巴,但这却是个谎言。女孩知道后,该开心,还是伤心?这种感觉很复杂吧!开心,因为有个男生可以为自己牺牲那么多;伤心,因为自己被骗了几十年。这故事同时也证明了,建立在谎言上的爱情,也可以很幸福,很美好。

还有另一个故事:
有个男人,很爱他的老婆,他们的生活很美满。有一天,他出外谈生意时,被灌醉了,还做了对不起他太太的事。他清醒后,很内疚。这件事的发生,完全是个意外。他,为了维护他的婚姻,保住现在所拥有的辛福生活,他决定不把事情说出来。他成功地骗过了他老婆,但没想到,最终还是让老婆发现了这件事。他告诉她这一切都是意外,他的心里只有她,他不把事情说出来,只是不希望这件事会影响他们的感情。老婆不听,最后离婚收场。

这个男人,选择让老婆活在谎言世界里,因为这个世界,会比现实世界来得美好。他不懂,老婆不接受他的解释,是因为他宁愿让老婆活在一个假的世界里,也不愿说出真相。他不相信他老婆可以体谅他,并和她商量这件事。他一开始骗得过老婆,只因为老婆信任他。

别去欺骗任何人,因为能被你骗的,都是相信你的人。谎言,可以让某件事看起来更美好,感觉上更美好,但当谎言被揭发时,总会有人受伤,而且那个伤,会很痛,很痛......



The One Day


Everytime when I'm jealous of other girls, you will always tell me that I'm the only one in your heart. I hope that it is real. Or even if it's a lie, I hope that you won't tell me the truth one day. To be honest, I prefer living in a fake world. I know you're jealous when I showed you the message, but since you know him and you know that two of us are just impossible, I don't get why will you jealous of it. Well, maybe it's because you care me or you're afraid that you will lose me, and that's why you're jealous. I will take that even if it's not true. All I want you to know is that I'm trying very very hard to forget that one person in my heart and the love I had towards him last time is not flowing to your side. Please trust me that I can do it. I will prove to you one day that I have let go of it and tell you that I love you proudly one day. Just wait for the day to come. I'm trying to play my part well, so please don't disappoint me when I'm putting so much effort into our relationship.